Exclusive Sissy Set ESS1

Hello there.

Here is an exclusive Sissy Anklet and Keyring set, only available on Sissy Site.

A pretty peach coloured beaded anklet and keyring set surrounding the word SISSY in white coloured disc beads with black letters, along with a silver plated adjustable 2 inch extension chain.  

Anklet size approx. 8 inches.

£15.99

FREE UK postage.

Payment by Paypal only.

Please message me for payment details.

Many thanks.

Chris.

#thesissysite

Monday 12th April 2021

Today’s Thoughts.

I had an unexpected visit from my bubble friend this weekend. I was laying on the sofa waiting for the gas man to turn up, he didn’t, and I heard a noise outside of my porch. Assuming it was coming from the neighbours, I continued watching the TV and heard another noise coming from my hall. I got up and peeped around the corner where I saw my friend standing there. I screamed like a girl, which made her laugh.

It was a great weekend. My friend got drunk which was funny as she can be rather louder than usual. I was a bit tiddly after a bottle of wine, but not as bad as her last visit where I was splayed across the living room floor for two hours. Anyway, as usual, my friend did my tarot cards and I was told great things are coming my way but I have to start clearing out the clutter from my house as I am being blocked from new opportunities  because my house is too full of my mum’s energy and not mine.

Liz went on to say that the spirit of my mum was with her, holding on to a dominant, older gentleman’s arm. We assumed this to be my mum’s dad who I never met. Through Liz, they said I have wallowed long enough and it was time to move on and I have to make the house my own now.

So feeling better from having their permission, I have been taking down some of my mum’s Elvis Presley memorabilia off the walls and have placed them on my local Facebook selling pages. Fingers crossed.

Even better, by chance I popped into one of my local charity shops on the way to the Post Office today and they said that they are taking donations, so at last I can clear out the bin bags full of stuff that have been cluttering up my kitchen. And even, even better, I met a friend down my high street and she offered to help me take my donations in her car. Bonus!

Last week I got a phone call from an old friend and we were talking about her daughter finishing off Drama College in a few months and was looking for some audition pieces. I happened to say that I wrote some monologues many years ago whilst I worked in a West End theatre and sent them over to her.

We then got chatting on how I could sell them online to other students and actors. So today whilst looking online for inspiration as I want to sell my writing as an ebook, I came across a website on ideas of how to earn money by blogging and affiliation. I will have to look into this.

Also there was a short video on there about how people have been making money from their YouTube channels. Well, sometime last year, I already had created a Sissy Site YouTube channel, so I thought I create a simple video (there’s no music to it as I don’t know how to do that yet) to showcase a selection of sissy anklets which can be purchased on www.kinkyklobber.com

Here is the link to the video. Or if you search online and use the #thesissysite hashtag, a link will take you to the video. You can’t imagine how excited this made me.  

Sissy Site Anklets April 2021 – YouTube

When I have to courage, I may take the plunge one day and film myself reviewing products and clubs or perhaps have a live stream where I’m interviewing people. I really don’t like seeing myself in videos or hearing my voice, but it may be a different avenue to explore. We’ll see.

Job wise, I didn’t pass a first selection process online, even though I thought I was guaranteed a position as it was to work in a  brand new shop, a job which I could do standing on my head. My friends told me that perhaps I was too old for the position as companies want younger people to train up their ways and traditions as well as pay them less money than someone who’s experienced as myself. In retrospect, this could be a blessing as that role may not have been right for me and the ideal job will appear soon. Thinking positive.

Saying that, I don’t really want to go back into full time employment but the money from the up and coming job will pay my bills and will be invested back into my business so that I can expand the website, buy more products to sell and profitably work from home once again.

To help to keep this website going, you are more than welcome to pop over to our mothership website and donate whatever you can. As you know, I have a target of £60 to raise each month for the cost of running the site and for hosting fees, so anything that you can give, I will be truly grateful.

#thesissysitesupporter

Donations – Kinky Klobber

Great news on the social media front as our Sissy Site presence is getting more followers over Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.

And I have been creating new Sissy jewellery designs for you to purchase through Kinky Klobber and my ebay store. Do keep popping by as more designs are on their way!

Please stay safe out there regarding the opening of non-essential shops. Remember to keep your distance and enjoy the outside dining and drinking experience. Hopefully this is the first step to rebuild our communities and the economy so that our local small businesses can become great as they once were.  

Well that’s it for now.

If you have any ideas on what you would like to discuss on here, please let me know.

Have a great week.

Chris.

#thesissysite

Sunday 4th April 2021

Happy Easter.

I hope you’ve all had a great holiday weekend.

At this time of year, we tend to rejoice, along with a fridge full of chocolate eggs and booze, new beginnings, rebirth and a positive attitude, especially now as the easing of lockdown has started and we are allowed to travel and see family members at a distance.

This is such a big breakthrough not just for our mental health, but for rebuilding our economy and getting Britain back to becoming GREAT once again!

Here is what the UK Government say on their website.

Changes on 29 March

Social contact

The evidence shows that it is safer for people to meet outdoors rather than indoors. And this is why from 29 March, when most schools start to break up for the Easter holidays, outdoor gatherings (including in private gardens) of either 6 people (the Rule of 6) or 2 households will also be allowed, making it easier for friends and families to meet outside.

Business and activities

Outdoor sports facilities such as tennis and basketball courts, and open-air swimming pools, will also be allowed to reopen, and people will be able to take part in formally organised outdoor sports.

Travel

The ‘stay at home’ rule will end on 29 March but many restrictions will remain in place. People should continue to work from home where they can and minimise the number of journeys they make where possible, avoiding travel at the busiest times and routes. Travel abroad will continue to be prohibited, other than for a small number of permitted reasons. Holidays abroad will not be allowed, given it will remain important to manage the risk of imported variants and protect the vaccination programme. The government has launched a new taskforce to review global travel which will report on 12 April.

Step 2 – not before 12 April

Business and activities

Step 2, which will be no earlier than 12 April, will see the opening of non-essential retail; personal care premises such as hairdressers and nail salons; and public buildings, including libraries and community centres. Indoor leisure facilities such as gyms will also reopen (but only for use by people on their own or in household groups); as will most outdoor attractions and settings including outdoor hospitality venues, zoos, theme parks, and drive-in cinemas. Self-contained accommodation such as campsites and holiday lets, where indoor facilities are not shared with other households, can also reopen.

Hospitality venues will be allowed to serve people outdoors at Step 2 and there will be no need for customers to order a substantial meal with alcoholic drinks and no curfew, although customers must order, eat and drink while seated (‘table service’). Wider social contact rules will apply in all these settings to prevent indoor mixing between different households.

Events

While funerals can continue with up to 30 mourners, the number of people able to attend weddings, receptions and commemorative events such as wakes will rise to 15.

For up to date information about lockdown rules, please visit www.gov.uk

As I’m now Billy No Mates, ‘aw’ I can’t hear you, ‘AW’, over the holiday weekend I’ve been sorting out old paperwork and organised my business files so that I’m ready for the new business year which starts on Tuesday. I hope the next business year will be much better than the last one as my sales are well down compared to the previous year. I guess when people get back to work, then we will all have some spare money to play with.

So in the meantime, I’ve been making new jewellery pieces which can now be purchased on www.kinkyklobber.com and through my ebay store http://www.ebaystores.co.uk/magicalmusicals . My top seller is Cum Slut. I wonder why? I guess there’s lots of thirsty people about, especially now the weather is getting warmer. Well that’s my excuse. This is very exciting as making my kinky jewellery my creative juices going and kicks my brain back into working order.

Talking of working, there’s still no news on the job front but I’m staying positive and keeping my fingers crossed. As soon as the money starts coming in, I can then buy new stock and revamp the website.

I have been doing some research on how to make money from my website, but most of the ideas that they suggest will only work if I have a lot of followers or hits. So please spread the word and tell your friends about our site and don’t forget to get in touch with any suggestions of what you would like to see on here. I’m looking into creating a forum, but again, things like this will cost money. I know I shouldn’t be so open about the business side of things, but I’d rather be honest and tell you all what’s going on than give you lots of fluff and nonsense. Although I do like fluff and nonsense, just wait until I clear away the clutter in my house and start the decorating!!!!   

#thesissysitesupporter

If you would like to become a Sissy Site Supporter, please visit the sister site, https://kinkyklobber.com/donations/ donations page and give whatever you can. As most of you know, my target is to raise £60 a month. This is for the upkeep and hosting fees.

Instagram and Twitter have picked up massively over the past weeks with loads of new followers, likes and retweets to my posts and memes. Plus we have new followers on here too which now makes 8 followers! This may not sound a lot of people, but to me it’s brilliant.

I’ve been joining more sissy groups and forums to see what’s new and pick up some tips. So if you do come across me, especially when the clubs start to open and I’m dancing on the tables, please say hello. Or even better, be nice and pick me up from the floor.

Don’t forget to like our Sissy Site Facebook page too and join the Sissy Site Shop group on Facebook. #thesissysiteshop

That’s it for now.

I’m off to have a cup of tea, though would prefer a glass of prosecco or champagne.

Have a great week as the evenings are getting brighter and warmer.

Take care.

Chris.

#thesissysite

Tuesday 23rd March 2021

#todaysthoughts

Yay. I’ve had my first covid vaccination this morning. Very excited. I don’t know if it was the jab or just the relief, but I had to do the eye thing this afternoon (take a nap) which lasted four hours! The top of my arm aches slightly at the moment as though as I’ve been doing weights (yeah right) but everything seems ok for now. Though to be safe, I will take a paracetamol tablet before I go to bed.

Talking of weights, I must start to eat a bit healthier and do some sit ups as my stomach still resembles a mini beer belly and I need to get into some kind of shape for when the clubs re-open in June and the top comes off amidst a heaving crowd. Please nag me about this as I will need some motivation over the next few months. If I could cook it would be much easier. A chicken ping (a microwaved dinner) is an easier alternative. I know, please don’t judge. 

I’ve also completed the census at the weekend as everyone in the UK has. It was much quicker to fill in the online forms than I thought it would.

As you know, I’m looking for work so that I can reinvest the money back into the business, so I had my last phone call from Ben on Friday, the back to work trainer. It was very interesting as over the three calls we were supposed to speak about how to look for work online, how to apply online and how to adapt my CV to the type of job I’m applying to, but as he knew I was competent in that department, instead we got talking about my business and how to build it up.

So over the two week course, we spoke about memes and hashtags, how to target potential customers and followers, the best times to post them on different social media platforms and how powerful this type of marketing is. At the end of the session, Ben said he was so impressed of what I have down over the two weeks and it was a pleasure to speak with me and will miss our chats. That was lovely of him. I will miss our chats too as he was someone different to talk business with and to get ideas from a younger perspective too.

Regarding memes, for those who have missed them, I’ve been making a daily lockdown countdown meme just to let you all know how many days left until the end of lockdown here in England. Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland have their own dates.

#endoflockdown

Our Twitter and Instagram pages are growing fast with new people following every hour and lots of likes a retweets picking up too. And we now have new followers on Sissy Site this week too which is really exciting. Thank you.

(3) Sissy Site | Facebook

Sissy Site (@SiteSissy) / Twitter

Sissy Site (@sissysite) • Instagram photos and videos

So whilst going through and clicking on people who to follow on my social media accounts, I’ve noticed some repeat information with has inspired me to create a new project. This is may take a while as I will need to do a lot of research, so do keep a lookout for that.

Thank you for everyone who has messaged me and has joined our Facebook group and liked our Facebook page. I have joined other Facebook groups to get some inspiration and to see if there are any trends we are missing out on.

Also, I have joined an adult website yesterday which has lots of fetish groups and like-minded people on there, some of the people I recognise from other sites and who I have met in some London clubs. I’m going to take it slow on there and build up my profile. I have been a bit naughty and have added some hashtags in the ‘about me’ section so in a few weeks my profile should be searchable and hopefully will bring in new customers and followers.

I also joined another site but an hour later I tried to log in but have been banned. Oh dear, their loss! This has given me the push to make Sissy Site ‘THE’ place to go for all your sissy needs.

Again this is where I need your help. I know we are in the middle of tough financial times, but if you do have any spare cash, please visit our mother site, www.kinkyklobber.com/donations and donate whatever you can. This helps to maintain the cost of the site and will help to build Sissy Site into a major player within the cross dressing / sissy world.

#thesissysitesupporter

Thanks again for all your support.

Have an amazing week.

Chris.

#thesissysite

Monday 15th March 2021

Where has that year gone?

Mother’s Day is over so for me this year was, unfortunately just a normal Sunday. Yes obviously I thought of my mum as it’s been a year since her passing, but it wasn’t as bad as it was last year. As they say, time heals.

This week again has been rather quiet. Earlier in the week I had a phone call from an agency to help me find a job. It was very useful as we ended up talking about my business and how I was using social media to promote it. I have another call this week, as well as my Universal Credit call. I’ve told both of the callers that if my business was busier, I wouldn’t need to go on benefits. And when I do find a job, this will help me to build up my business and I will be able to buy new stock and add more features on here.

If you want to help and become a Sissy Site Supporter, please pop over to our mothership site, http://www.kinkyklobber.com and click on the donation page. Anything that you can donate is much appreciated. My target is to raise £60 a month. Thank you.

This weekend I had some interesting chats online to other sissies regarding their relationships with their wives. One of the guys has been buying sexy lingerie for his wife but she doesn’t want to wear them so he does now. Apparently he wants her to become a hot wife as their sex life is nil and he’s been trying to spice it up.

I suggested that he was going the wrong way and making it all about his interests. Things like this takes times, possibly months. If he wants an active sex life with his wife, then he should take small steps and make it all about her and what makes her tick and feel comfortable. I did say that he should give her compliments and make her feel special. Not to go overboard and gushy, but say nice things about her cooking or how lovely she looks. Being nice to people can help you get what you want. Try it.

I try to be nice and compliment others as one, this makes them feel better about themselves and two, I benefit from their happiness. Some say this is sneaky, but if you’re making someone happy just by being friendly, then what’s wrong with that?

Sometimes people just want to be noticed, so a simple ‘hello’ can make all the difference. Again, the person who you see on a daily basis maybe shy and desperate to speak to you but they’re afraid of being rejected or ignored.

Test out this theory. Whilst out shopping, spark up a conversation with the assistant. It doesn’t have to be anything in depth and meaningful, just anything random from the weather, how busy the shop is or if you know them, how nice they look. Or when you see a neighbour that you rarely speak to across the street, wave to them or say hello and see what happens.

So going back to the chat with the guy online, he also wants to become a cuckold. This, I didn’t know can also come under the umbrella of being a sissy. For those who don’t know, some wives force their husbands to dress up as a sissy or in sexy underwear and humiliate them in front of other guys or make the husband watch the wife have sex with other men. This can work both ways as the husband can feel sexually elated by being degraded and humiliated or get excited by seeing his wife having sex with one or several partners at one time. If the husband is lucky, he maybe asked to join in the fun or wait to clean her or her sexual partners up at the end of the session.

#flr

This kind of Female Led Relationship is where the wife has the power over her husband not just in the bedroom but in their marriage too. The wife is now the dominant partner and the husband becomes the submissive. The husband may be told to dress up or be locked in a cock cage so that he’s not allowed to play without the wife’s permission. Or the wife may give the cage key to one of her lovers to look after. The wife now makes all the important decisions and metaphorically (and often literally) wears the pants in the relationship.

Also the ‘Hot Wife’ is allowed to go off and have sex with other men when and wherever she wants and reports back to her husband in detail of what has happened. Some wives send pictures and videos of her encounters to her caged or cuckolded husband, even when she’s having sex with other men. For this kind of relationship to work, there has to be a lot of trust and love on both sides or otherwise it can become a sticky situation with unhappy consequences. So if you want to invite others into your relationship and have this kind of lifestyle, you both need to do a lot of serious soul searching, converse with each other regarding all of the aspects that is good and bad and be totally honest with each other as that chosen lifestyle may not be suitable for either of you and may only be a fantasy.

Though hopefully not a fantasy, lockdown here in England is due to end on the 21st June. This means nightclubs and other intimate social places will be open and we may be able to live a fairly normal life again. I’m going to try and create a daily countdown post Twitter, Facebook and Instagram of how many days remaining, so do keep checking in.

Do let me know if you need anything discussed on here that you’re not sure of or want to know more details of so that I can do some research for you.

That’s it for now.

Have a lovely week.

Take care.

Chris.

#thesissysite

Thursday 11th March 2021

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!

Yes it’s that time of year for me to celebrate another year on this planet and to remember a sad time as well.

For all you new followers, my mum passed away last year from old age and I wanted to have her funeral on my birthday, joining the both days so that I could see all my friends and family at one time and have lots of support when needed.

This year is totally different as I’m Billy No Mates at home, with no friends staying over to look after me and no cat to fuss over as he gained his wings over Christmas.

I’m not ‘woe is meing’ (been there, done that earlier this year) but just contemplating how much has changed in one year. I have grown up a lot and surprised many people with my strength and courage of coping under pressure as loved ones passed over, leaving behind a huge empty hole in my life. Though out of darkness comes the light and new beginnings are occurring and changes are coming. Ooer missus.

In the meantime, I shall be celebrating on my tod with a bottle of prosecco (I’d rather have a bottle of Bollinger) and watching the usual crap on TV.

If you want to cheer me up, here is the link to my Amazon Wish List. Hint hint!!!

https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/39FYLKWV7YQBB?ref_=wl_share

#amazon #amazonwishlist

Business news, my sales compared to last year are down as people still don’t have any spare cash to spend on luxuries, unless you’re a Real Housewife Of… but I am gaining more followers per day on all the social media platforms which is a bonus.  

I’m hoping to have my vaccination jab soon which means when lockdown is over, I’ll be able to organise some sissy events and parties. Just need to look for suitable venues as my house is in such a mess at the moment, it would be too embarrassing for people to come over and see. Perhaps I need to seek out some sissies who would come around and do some free DIY for me. Any offers?

Right. I’m off to bed to prepare for all those birthday phone calls I’m going to get when I wake up. Ha ha.

Have a wonderful day.

Chris.

#thesissysite

Wednesday 3rd March 2021

Spring is almost here and it looks like there’s light at the end of the tunnel for us Brits here in the UK.

Apparently on the 12th April, non-essential shops here in England are supposed to open. And with my vaccination jab on the horizon, along as becoming a year older, March seems to be a rather exciting time with new ideas, new opportunities and new ways of thinking taking place.

Spring is normally the time when we all take stock of what we have or want and brush away the cobwebs in the house or in the mind.

As you already know, I’m reading the book, Think And Grow Rich. I’m trying to follow the stages and do what they say but this is easier said than done as I can be naughty and like to break the rules.

I have put some affirmations on my Vision Board and read them out loud every day in a joyous fashion. It’s important that we think positive thoughts because if we fill our minds with doubt and disbelief, these thoughts will manifest into their physical equivalents and can cause all kinds of damage.

When riches begin to come, they come so quickly, in such great abundance, that one wonders where they have been hiding during all those lean years.

Fingers crossed!

February was a very disappointing month regarding sales and growth, though our social media coverage is growing fast and Twitter is picking up with nearly 1,000 followers. Plus I have one new follower on here which is very exciting.

In the meantime, I’m trying to come up with different sissy memes so if you like any of them, please like and share them with your followers too.

As you may have previously read, March is my birthday month. Hopefully this year will be cheerful compared to last year as having a wicked sense of humour, I had my mum’s funeral on my birthday. I know that may sound really strange, but it was an ideal time to see all of my friends and family in one go and have some support on a rather sad occasion. I’m sure my mum would have loved that too.

So, as we can’t meet up this year to celebrate my birthday and to be cheeky, here is a link to my Amazon Wish List.

#amazon #amazonwishlist

https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/39FYLKWV7YQBB?ref_=wl_share

Along with some naughty underwear and other bits and bobs, you will notice that there are some odd items regarding DIY on there. I need to start clearing away the clutter now and make my house my home. It’s going to be very odd as I don’t really have any design taste, although I do like the style of 80’s TV show Dynasty, the West End musical, The Phantom Of The Opera and the houses of the Real Housewives Of Beverly Hills, especially Lisa Vanderpump’s. Yes I do love my glitz and glamour. Please don’t judge me.

#birthdayboy

Because of the social media coverage, Sissy Site is now getting more hits and views per day, which is fabulous. In the coming year I’m aiming to make Sissy Site the place for all your sissy needs. You will see slight improvements and additions to the site over the coming months

#thesissysitesupporter

This is where your help is needed. I’ve added a donations page on http://www.kinkyklobber.com to raise money to keep this site going. At the moment it cost’s on average £60 a month for the upkeep. That’s the target I’m looking to raise every month. When sales start to pick up and more people become more generous, I can then add on things like chat rooms etc and in the future employ someone to maintain the site for me. So if you have any spare cash, please donate below. Thank you.  

Whilst out jogging (Yes I still do this in the evening and I do need some sexy running tights, see my Amazon Wish List) I had an idea for making new men’s jewellery. So that night I designed some Men’s Cum Slut necklaces for when we can be playful go out and meet again.

They are on sale now at http://www.kinkyklobber.com

I have already had some interest in them so I will be creating different designs over the next few weeks to build up a collection. If you belong to the Sissy Site Shop Facebook group, you will get updates on there.

(2) Sissy Site | Facebook

#thesissysiteshop #facebook

As you may have noticed, I’ve been using some hashtags on this blog. Apparently, I did an online search the other day of one of my hashtags and my site popped up. How exciting is that?

Also I’ve learnt some new hashtags regarding a part of the sissy world that I never knew of.

Someone I met at a club, don’t ask me what type of club this was as I’m not going to tell you, who had a sissy slave pay him for a 10 minute phone call. I put this at the back of my mind until I came across these hashtags last month.    

#findom

#cashslave

#cashpig

#pigpay

#cashmaster

Apparently there are people in the sissy world willing to serve and give their money away as it arouses them and gives them sexual gratification. This is called Financial Domination. So if any of you sissies out there wants to get their satin lined rocks off and release that built up tension in your never regions and in your wallets, you know which donation button to press on here! Ha ha. 

Well, it’s come to that time in the evening to pop open a bottle of prosecco and slip on my silky pjs for a cosy night for one.

Don’t forget if you like what you read, click on the subscribe button.

I shall look forward to all unwrapping all those parcels coming through my door this month.

Take care my lovelies.

Chris.

#thesissysite

Monday 22nd February 2021

It’s Motivation Monday! #motivationmonday

Yay. I need some get up and go. Who doesn’t?

To be honest, I have been lacking in doing stuff around the house (this is where I need some Sissy slaves to tackle my decorating and cleaning for me) but over the weekend I have been busy designing new Sissy anklets which are ready to purchase on ebay and www.kinkyklobber,com

Half an hour later from writing the first section of this blog, yes it really took me that long on how get here and back to the normal style and all I had to do was click on the backspace button, I’m back on track.

I am now on page 52 of Think And Grow Rich book. It takes me a while to read as I do it in bed before sleepies and some nights I like to switch off and just slob out to some tv instead of invigorating my brain.

I’m now on Chapter 3, Faith and have been doing the exercises. I’ve created a business mood board with quotes, targets and pictures and saying my daily mantras. As they say, if you don’t ask you won’t get!

I’m in the middle of writing my own motivation book to sell (it’s been on hold for a while now) and have been reading it again. I can’t believe what great ideas are in there and I should take my own advice. Well I will now.

Another great book which changed my life is The One Minute Millionaire by Mark Victor Hansen & Robert Allen. I’ve lost the follow up book, along with The Secret. I’m sure they must be in my house somewhere as they went missing a few years ago after me moving the dust about. That’s what I call cleaning, moving dust. Hands up, my house is rather littered with clutter at the moment, but having been living here for 42 years, I have accumulated unwanted stuff. And now that I’m going though my mum’s gear and clearing that out as well, I’m finding the odd hidden gem within her belongings as well as a multitude of carrier bags and tissues!

Job hunting is really slow at the moment as obviously nothing is open yet. I have had a chat with my Universal Credit coach and he has given me a list of things to do. Hopefully when lockdown eases, there will be some opportunities out there. In the meantime, I’ve been doing some research and working out how to earn some extra income from my websites and I may have cracked the Premium Content section on here. To start off, I shall be charging £1 a month. I’m not sure what content is needed, possibly add group chat, competitions etc, so that’s the next step. Any ideas?

The Sissy Site Twitter account is growing fast with nearly 800 followers and I’m now being mentioned in other people’s tweets! This is rather exciting and unexpected. Instagram though has slowed down. But I do get a lot of people liking my posts which is brilliant.

I’m now adding more bits and bobs that I want on my Amazon Wish List, see the link below, only because I saw a programme the other night about a Mistress who received lots of parcels from her slaves and followers. So I thought if she can do it, so can I! I do have some random items on there like a gold thrown, vacuum bags and compost to glitter grout, paint and tiles as I intend to decorate my porch sometime this year. Well, when I say decorate that means someone else to do it for me as I’m crap at DIY. Any offers? And as it will be my birthday next month, it would be fun to be spoilt. Don’t you think?

https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/39FYLKWV7YQBB?ref_=wl_share

Well it’s that time for me to put on my leopard print eye mask, slink into my satin sheets and bid you all a good night.

I shall let you know when a parcel arrives.

Take care my lovelies.

Chris.

#thesissysite

Thursday 18th February 2021

Today’s is a major turning point day for me, as this time last year my mum passed away. I can’t believe how quick this year has flown by and in a strange way at the tender age of 53, how much I have grown up during that time!

As a single child, it has been really difficult being home alone with no one to talk to, especially as my cat got his wings at Christmas. Luckily I have great friends that I can call up and chat with, even though we mostly end up taking crap.

So now that the year has passed and all those sad anniversaries and holidays are over, it’s time to think positive, take up new challenges, opportunities and look upwards towards the stars.

With that in mind, I’ve dug out my well thumbed copy of Napoleon Hill’s book, Think And Grow Rich to see if that will help. I’m only on page 15 at the moment and will let you know how I get on.

‘I am a money magnet! I am a money magnet!’

Talking of being positive, after waiting for a few weeks, I had some great news yesterday and that is I’m eligible for Universal Credit. I hate asking for any kind of help, as my friends know that only too well, so this extra money will definitely help pay my bills until sales pick up or until I find a full time job. I was hoping that my business would support me, but obviously there is less disposable cash about at the moment which means people are only spending money on essential items. Hopefully in a few months time I’ll have some spare capital to invest back into the business and acquire new stock. If you can think of any items that you find difficult to buy, please let me know to see if I can help.

The social media side of the business is growing fast as I now have over 1,200 followers on Instagram and 700 followers on Twitter. If you’re not already a follower of my Sissy Site, please click on the link to subscribe to my scintillating blog. I know I don’t write on here as much as I should as a blogger, but I don’t want to go on about how uneventful my life is: get up, have breakfast in bed, watch Jeremy Vine, wash, do social media, get dressed, post office or shop, eat, declutter, look for work, eat, nap if tired, eat, watch tv etc. Did I mention eat?

I did have a major revamp on www.kinkyklobber.com which took me a few days and created headers and pages so that it’s now easier to find certain products without having to scroll through the entire stock on one page. Now I just need to see if I can list the items on each page in to alphabetical order. As they say, baby steps.

And also by playing about with the layout today on this blog, I may have stumbled on how to create private paid content. As I said in my previous blog, everything is set up and ready to go, but I didn’t know how to create the content. Hopefully I do now. It seems already that things are looking up. It’s all that positive thinking.

‘I am a money magnet! I am a money magnet!’

On that note, I shall leave you all on a high with happy vibes.

If there is anything you would like to discuss on here, or something you would like me to write about, please let me know. I’m here to help you.

Take care my lovelies until next time.

Chris.

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Monday 8th February 2021

Well, being reflective isn’t the word of de jour but happy memories come to mind.

This time last year the start of a horrific year was about to happen with the demise and loss of my mum. Over the next two weeks I guess my mind may drift off back to those dark times. Though saying that, I did have the support of my two friends who left their own lives and came to live with me, looked after me and cheered me up. I knew what was going to happen with my mum but nothing like that prepares you for the loss and the emptiness of a loved one.

And now a year has passed and changes have happened, not just for me but in everyone’s lives, my time of wallowing is coming to an end and my new adult life is just beginning.

Over the past few months I have learnt a lot of things, that if I put my mind to something, I can make a success out of it, regardless how long it may take me to get there and what people may think of me. I know people think that I’m this fluffy piece of candyfloss that floats through life on a diamond encrusted cloud and live in the land of the fairies, but never underestimate what I can do, what talents, power and wisdom I have locked away in reserve. And when I am ready, be prepared as my inner beast will erupt and surprise those who thought that I can be trod on and passed over. You have no idea of what I’m capable of when I put my mind to it.

By this, I mean I created a Facebook group a few months ago and since January 2021 it became really popular and grew so quick with over 500 members joining within the last two weeks. Unfortunately I had to close the group as yet again, I was putting all this effort and time into promoting it and getting members to join that I wasn’t getting any financial rewards from it. It was a tough decision to make, but the right decision.

So now I’m looking into creating a members only section on my Kinky Klobber site where I can make money from what I love doing and that’s writing and connecting with people. So, I’ve set up the payment section, I’ve created a payment button, I created a members only page and even loaded up a test picture. But can I find it on my website? Can I heck. It took me an hour just to learn how to add an extra menu button to the top of the home page. I guess it make take me a bit longer to live my dream, but I’m on the right track. I just need to dig out that battered drivers manual, slip on my leather gloves, buckle up and practice, practice practice!!!

In the meantime I have been trying to build up Instagram and Twitter platforms and came across a new aspect of the sissy world. Has anyone heard of Cash Slaves, Cash Pigs or Pay Pigs? Apparently these are people who get an arousal for giving their money away to Mistresses and Masters. There’s nothing strange in that, so I thought I’d have a try. So I slipped on my Master’s dominating head and put out a message on Twitter asking for any paypigs to treat me, as it will be my birthday next month. If I can get get 10 people paying me £100 a month, then all my bills and debt would be paid! Fingers crossed.

With funds now on the slim side, I have updated my CV and applied for two jobs. Both are fairly local. Although if the members only side of my website took off and created the same amount of members that I had in my Facebook group, then that would become my full time job with an unlimited income source. How exciting would that be?

Then, when the shops start to reopen, I’d be able to get my hair cut again and look somewhat presentable! Last week I had to chop a lot of it off as I was sporting a Kevin Keegan mullet. Now it’s a wonky, all over different layered ‘refined punk-esque’ style. I’d say it’s more of a natural, just woken up, bedroom look, others will say it’s a mess. I won’t pit a picture of that up on here as it would frighten everyone away.

And on that note, I’m signing off.

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Take care.

Chris.

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